Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Blocking digestive enzymes may reverse shock, stop multiorgan failure

Jan. 23, 2013 ? New research from the University of California, San Diego published in the Jan. 23 issue of Science Translational Medicine moves researchers closer to understanding and developing treatments for shock, sepsis and multiorgan failure. Collectively, these maladies represent a major unmet medical need: they are the number one cause of mortality in intensive care units in the United States, with hundreds of thousands of deaths annually. There is currently no treatment for these conditions in spite of many clinical trials.

Most researchers agree that organ failure in shock and sepsis involves the intestine -- and that it arises when the mucosal barrier of the small intestine becomes permeable. However, the mechanism by which this disrupted membrane is tied to vastly different kinds of shock, as well as multiorgan failure and death has not been understood.

In the case of sepsis (septic shock), for example, some researchers speculate that bacteria in the intestine and their toxins are responsible for organ failure. However, interventions against bacteria that are aimed at reducing mortality in patients undergoing septic shock have been unsuccessful in clinical trials.

Looking more broadly than bacteria, a team of researchers led by Geert W. Schmid-Sch?nbein in the Department of Bioengineering at the UC San Diego Jacobs School of Engineering has carried out several years of careful analysis of the events in shock. That research led them to investigate the powerful, concentrated digestive enzymes in the intestine, the same enzymes that are part of daily digestion.

These digestive enzymes need to be restricted to the inside of the small intestine by the mucosal barrier. Once this barrier is disrupted, which can occur for a variety of reasons including dramatic loss of blood, physical puncture or opening (as in shrapnel injury or appendicitis), or degradation by bacterial toxins, digestive enzymes leak into the wall of the intestine and begin digesting it, a phenomenon the UC San Diego researchers call "autodigestion." Once beyond the mucosal barrier of the small intestine, the UC San Diego researchers believe the digestive enzymes damage other organs by indiscriminately starting to degrade them, which can lead to multiorgan failure and death.

The new research, published in the Jan. 23 issue of Science Translational Medicine, provides novel results linking digestive enzymes to shock, sepsis and multiorgan failure. In particular, by administering digestive enzyme blockers directly into the small intestines of rats an hour after the onset of different types of shock, the researchers led by Schmid-Sch?nbein reversed the often fatal conditions, reduced injury to the heart and lungs, and greatly increased long-term survival of the animals from about 16 percent to 86 percent.

  • The animals that received the digestive enzyme blockers in the lumen of the intestine regained their health and survived for long periods of time after shock. (Past experimental shock studies have been limited to relatively short observation periods.)
  • The researchers showed a clear connection between direct inhibition of pancreatic digestive enzymes after the onset of three different shock models in rat, reduced organ damage and long-term survival of the animals. They demonstrated improved survival with three very different inhibitors of the digestive enzymes.
  • All three of the pancreatic enzyme inhibitors, when delivered directly into the small intestine, but not when delivered intravenously, stopped autodigestion brought on by shock. (One of these enzyme inhibitors is already approved for use in the United States for other purposes).
  • Blockade of the digestive enzymes was successful in three widely different forms of shock. The researchers studied hemorrhagic shock, septic shock and endotoxic shock.

For the first time, these studies specifically indicate that it is possible to stop autodigestion by blocking the digestive enzymes in animals with induced shock. "We saw far less damage to organs, faster recovery of the animals, and a reduction of mortality in shock," said Research Associate Frank DeLano, who carried out the studies with Schmid-Sch?nbein.

Autodigestion

The UC San Diego bioengineers have described aspects of autodigestion, as well as the potential for stopping it (and treating shock) by blocking the powerful digestive enzymes that have breached the intestine barrier, in numerous papers in the scientific literature.

This research has the potential to lead to therapies that greatly reduce fatalities, morbidity, and length of stay in intensive care units in patients undergoing various forms of shock.

"Organisms rely on full containment of the digestive enzymes in the small intestine. The moment the intestinal mucosal barrier is compromised, the digestive enzymes escape and then we are no longer digesting just our food, but we may be digesting our organs," said Schmid-Sch?nbein.

A Phase 2 clinical pilot study is under way to test the efficacy and safety of a new method of administering an enzyme inhibitor for critically ill patients such as those with new-onset sepsis and septic shock, post-operative complications, and new-onset gastrointestinal bleeding.

In addition, a published clinical report points to successful treatment of a patient with severe septic shock with digestive enzyme inhibitors delivered directly into the intestine.

In shock, there is a major failure of the mucosal barrier in the small intestine. There may also be other conditions in which the failure of this barrier is less severe, and digestive enzymes leak more slowly into the blood stream. The effect on human health of slow leakage of digestive enzymes into the body with low level of autodigestion remains to be explored, Schmid-Sch?nbein explained.

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  1. F. A. DeLano, D. B. Hoyt, G. W. Schmid-Schonbein. Pancreatic Digestive Enzyme Blockade in the Intestine Increases Survival After Experimental Shock. Science Translational Medicine, 2013; 5 (169): 169ra11 DOI: 10.1126/scitranslmed.3005046

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Twitter Updates Embedded Tweets To Include More Content, Context, Speed And Ease Of Use

3616155715_498abcc768_zTwitter didn’t have the best day yesterday, in fact, it hasn’t had the best week when it comes to keeping its service running without issues. Today’s announcement might explain a little bit about why the site has been acting oddly. Whenever a change happens to one of Twitter’s products, it’s usually tipped off by some sort of issues introduced with the new code leading up to its launch. The company announced today that it has tweaked its embeddable tweets product to include more content. Why would you embed tweets? Well, the company frowns upon screenshots, especially when you’re including a tweet in a post. In addition to embeddable tweets, Twitter also serves up widgets of streams, which they launched last September. Here’s an example of an embedded tweet: Today, we?re introducing several enhancements that make embedded Tweets more engaging, useful and fast: More content and context. Embedded Tweets display photos, videos, article summaries and other content shared in a Tweet, just like you see on twitter.com. You can also view retweet and favorite counts to better understand engagement, and we?ve made some tweaks to the design so that embedded Tweets are easier to read. Faster loading. You?ll see Embedded Tweets show up faster on the sites you visit. Embed with ease. It?s now even easier to embed a Tweet on your own website. Just click the “More” button in any Tweet on twitter.com, and then select ?Embed this Tweet? to enrich your blog posts or pages. You can do the same on TweetDeck. To embed a tweet, all you have to do is grab the code that Twitter supplies you by clicking “more” when you’re on the landing page of the tweet, and drop it into your page or blog post. It’s difficult to serve up content on other people’s sites, as you don’t know the conditions of their web servers and page speeds. This definitely has something to do with Twitter’s slowness over the past few months. For example, if the largest website in the world were to embed just about any tweet, that’s a load that Twitter is serving up. This definitely isn’t trivial. By preserving the original content, links and source of a Tweet, media outlets can do a better job at sourcing news stories from Twitter. I’ve seen doctored screenshots in the past, which were passed off as original tweets. Without a link back to the

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Los Angeles Catholic officials shielded pedophile priests: report

(Reuters) - Two Catholic Church officials in California plotted to conceal child molestation by priests from law enforcement as late as 1987, the Los Angeles Times reported on Monday, citing newly released internal Church records.

The records show that Los Angeles Archbishop Roger Mahony, who is now retired, and his top adviser on child sex abuse cases, Monsignor Thomas Curry, worked with other Church officials in 1987 to send priests accused of abuse out of state to avoid prosecution, the newspaper said.

Mahony and Curry also tried to keep pedophile priests from confessing to therapists who would be obligated to report the crimes, the newspaper said, citing the records, which were released on Los Angeles Times' website.

Curry even suggested in 1987 they send a pedophile priest to "a lawyer who is also a psychiatrist" to put the priest's "reports under the protection of privilege," the Times reported.

In another 1987 case, Curry cautioned Mahony against returning a child abuser to the Los Angeles parishes where he molested children.

"There are numerous - maybe twenty - adolescents and young adults that (the priest) was involved with in a first degree felony manner," Curry wrote of one accused molester. "The possibility of one of these seeing him is simply too great."

In a statement posted on the newspaper's website, Mahony offered an apology to all the young victims.

Mahony also said that after 1987, as he and other Church officials began to comprehend how damaging sexual abuse was to the child victims, the diocese began to take more aggressive steps to investigate the accused priests and prevent further molestations.

The sex abuse scandal has rocked the Catholic Church in the United States, costing it billions of dollars in settlements and driving prominent dioceses into bankruptcy.

The scandal erupted in the United States in 1992 with a series of sex abuse cases uncovered in the Archdiocese of Boston that helped encourage other victims of abuse to come forward.

Los Angeles is the largest Roman Catholic diocese in the United States, with over 4 million Catholics.

The records of 14 priests were made public as part of a civil lawsuit this month and posted on the Times' website.

Next month, a judge overseeing a civil sex abuse lawsuit against the Los Angeles archdiocese will decide whether the two Church officials will face new depositions about the alleged plot.

In the weeks ahead, the personnel files of 75 more Los Angeles priests will be released as part of a 2007 civil settlement with 500 victims, the newspaper said.

J. Michael Hennigan, an attorney for the archdiocese, was not immediately available for comment.

However, Hennigan told the Los Angeles Times that in the late 1980s the Church's policy was to let the families of the victims decide whether or not to contact the police. He said the newly released records, which the archdiocese fought for years to keep secret, are "part of the past."

"We are embarrassed and at times ashamed by parts of the past," Hennigan said. "But we are proud of our progress, which is continuing."

(Reporting By Chris Francescani in New York; Editing by Mary Wisniewski and Christopher Wilson)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/los-angeles-catholic-officials-shielded-pedophile-priests-report-053314646.html

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Tuesday, January 22, 2013

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49ers rally past Falcons 28-24 in NFC title game

ATLANTA (AP) ? The loss stuck with them for a year, pushing the San Francisco 49ers in everything they did.

They didn't want to feel that way again.

Not to worry.

The 49ers are headed to the Super Bowl.

Bouncing back from a bitter loss in the 2012 NFC championship game, San Francisco cleared the hurdle it couldn't quite get over the previous season. And, boy, did the 49ers earn it, rallying from an early 17-0 deficit to beat the Atlanta Falcons 28-24 on Sunday.

"We worked so hard," said Frank Gore, who ran for a pair of touchdowns, including the go-ahead score with 8:23 remaining. "We knew that we got here last year and it didn't happen. But we got back and we said to ourselves, as a team, that this time we've got to walk through the door. You really don't get opportunities like this."

The 49ers used to get them all the time, winning five Super Bowl titles in the 1980s and '90s. Now, with a clutch quarterback (Colin Kaepernick), a budding genius of a coach (Jim Harbaugh) and a big-play defense, they're ready to start a new dynasty.

They were one win away from playing for it all last season, until a fumbled return in the NFC championship game led to the winning field goal in overtime for the eventual Super Bowl champion New York Giants.

When the Falcons raced to their big lead by the first play of the second quarter, San Francisco (13-4-1) appeared headed for more disappointment.

But no one lost faith, and the 49ers pulled off the biggest comeback victory ever in an NFC championship game, according to STATS.

The previous record was 13 points ? Atlanta's victory over Minnesota in the 1999 title game, which sent the Falcons to what remains the only Super Bowl appearance in franchise history. The AFC championship game record is 18 points, when Indianapolis rallied past New England in 2007.

"I don't really think it's destiny or anything like that written on the walls," 49ers defensive tackle Justin Smith said. "It's the team that works the hardest, prepares the hardest, and has the best players and coaching staff. You pour all that in together and it comes out pretty good at the end."

The 49ers advanced to face Baltimore at New Orleans in two weeks, looking to join Pittsburgh as the only franchises with six Super Bowl titles. It'll be a brother-vs.-brother matchup, too; John Harbaugh coaches the Ravens.

But Jim Harbaugh wasn't concerned about a family reunion.

He was hoppin' mad when a disputed call went against the 49ers on Atlanta's potential winning drive in the closing minutes. Harbaugh leaped in the air, screamed at the officials and had to be restrained by his staff from charging the field.

But the 49ers stopped Atlanta on a fourth-down play at their own 10, as linebacker NaVorro Bowman reached in to swat the ball away from Roddy White on a pass across the middle with 1:09 remaining.

San Francisco ran off all but the final 6 seconds, not nearly enough time for Matt Ryan to pull out another improbable comeback.

The previous week, Atlanta (14-4) squandered a 20-point lead in the fourth quarter against the Seattle Seahawks, nearly becoming the first team to lose with such a daunting advantage in the final period of a playoff game. But Ryan completed two long passes in the final 30 seconds, and Matt Bryant kicked a 49-yard field goal for a 30-28 victory.

After Gore's second TD gave San Francisco its first lead of the day, the Falcons took the ensuing kickoff and used up nearly all the clock while going 70 yards. They might have reclaimed the lead if Harry Douglas had been able to stay on his feet while hauling in a 22-yard pass.

The defender slipped, leaving Douglas all alone down the sideline. But he tripped, too, doing well to make the catch without the ball hitting the turf. Harbaugh thought it did, challenging the call, but the referee ruled it a catch after looking at the replay.

That's when Harbaugh nearly lost it.

It all worked out, though.

"We rose up there at the end," Harbaugh said. "It was a great finish for our defense, an exclamation point on the game."

The Falcons ran up and down the field in the first two quarters, piling up 17 first downs and 297 yards for a 24-14 lead. Ryan played a nearly perfect half, completing 18 of 24 passes for 271 yards and three touchdowns, two of them to Julio Jones. When Tony Gonzalez hauled in a 10-yard touchdown pass with 25 seconds remaining, restoring a double-digit lead, it looked as though Atlanta had weathered the 49ers' comeback.

Actually, the Falcons were done, at least on the scoreboard.

They were held scoreless over the final two periods by the 49ers, who seized on two key mistakes by Ryan. First, after guiding the Falcons into San Francisco territory, he was picked off by Chris Culliver. Then, with Atlanta well within field-goal range at the 49ers 28, Ryan took his eye off a shotgun snap for a split-second and the ball bounced off his hands. Aldon Smith recovered for San Francisco.

"Against a good football team like that, you can't have those kinds of mistakes," Ryan said. "We moved the ball really effectively all day. We just had two chances where we were in positive territory and didn't walk away with points."

The 49ers are headed to the Super Bowl for the first time since 1995, when they won the last of their championships.

"We've come full circle," said Denise DeBartolo York, part of the family that has owned the 49ers since their championship days, "and the dynasty will prevail."

The city by the bay is rapidly becoming the new Titletown USA. The 49ers will try follow the lead of the baseball Giants, who gave San Francisco a World Series championship in October.

Kaepernick didn't get a chance to show off his touchdown celebration for the 49ers ? flexing his right arm and kissing his bicep, a move that quickly became a social media sensation known as Kaepernicking.

But the second-year quarterback who runs like a track star shredded the Falcons through the air by completing 16 of 21 for 233 yards, including a 4-yard touchdown to Vernon Davis. Plus, he caused so much concern about his running ability out of the spread option that Gore and LaMichael James found plenty of huge holes.

Ryan had the best playoff game of his career, completing 30 of 42 for 396 yards. His favorite target was Jones, who hauled in scoring passes of 46 and 20 yards on the way to finishing with 11 catches for 182 yards.

But it wasn't enough to extend the career of Gonzalez, the Hall of Famer-to-be who has said all along this would likely be his final season.

He sure sounded like it was over.

"I've had such a great life," he said. "I wish it would've culminated with the Super Bowl, but it didn't."

Gore scored on runs of 5 and 9 yards, finishing with 90 yards on 21 carries. James picked up the first TD for the 49ers on a 15-yard run. Davis had five catches for 106 yards, and the 49ers overcame a fumble by Michael Crabtree just short of the goal line early in the fourth quarter, giving the Falcons a glimmer of hope.

"I take my hat off to Atlanta. They played hard. They've got a great team," Gore said. "But we fought, man. We fought and we deserved it."

And no one was thinking about last season anymore.

Notes: The Falcons rushed for only 81 yards and lost Michael Turner in the second half to an ankle injury. He gained 30 yards on eight carries. ... San Francisco K David Akers had another miss in a dismal season, clanking a 38-yard attempt off the left upright in the third quarter. ... Jones set a franchise record for receiving yards in a playoff game, topping Alfred Jenkins' mark of 155 in a 1981 loss to Dallas.

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Selling your home? | A-Pro Home Inspection Olympia

Selling your home?

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Sunday, January 20, 2013

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A home inspection can be a stressful time for home sellers. Most people are proud of their house, and don?t want someone pointing out imperfections in the home they love.

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In addition to being stressful for the seller, a home inspection can also be a hindrance to the sale itself. In most cases, even if there is a sales contract it is usually contingent on an inspection.? ?Buyers may be experiencing ?buyer?s remorse? that has started since signing the contract.? They may be hypersensitive to negatives about the home, both real and perceived.? As the seller, you want the buyer?s inspection experience to be low-stress and your home to be inviting and comfortable.

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Here are 10 tips for the home seller to make the inspection smoother.?

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  1. Make repairs to your home in advance of the inspection.? Make any repairs to the home you are willing to make before the inspection. Fix leaks under the sink, replace smoke detector batteries, fix leaky faucets and perform other minor home repairs that you may have been putting off.? ?When buyers and inspectors see several components that have lacked routine maintenance, it raises concerns about whether there may be major problems.? For major repairs, or if you hire a contractor, keep the receipts and leave them on the kitchen counter.? Disclose the items you?re not willing to repair.
  2. Consider preventive maintenance.? ?PM,? or routine servicing is a great way to impress the inspector. Professionally clean fireplace chimneys and heating and cooling equipment.? Change HVAC air filters and clean roof rain gutters. Again, display receipts.
  3. Tidy up your house.? Don?t put seeds of doubt in the buyers mind because of something as simple as cleanliness.? A buyer feels much more confident purchasing from someone they perceive as neat and who has taken good care of the home they are about to possess.? Clean your home at least as well as you would for any other showing.? In fact, the inspector will show your buyers areas they probably did not see during the initial visits to the home, so remember closets, cabinets, and under sinks.? Of course, don?t leave dishes in the sink, empty the dishwasher, clean toilets and pick up laundry.
  4. Remove pets. Some people are allergic to (or frightened by) pets, and you want to make the inspection as pleasant as possible. Even crated pets can be a distraction (barking and crying) and can be the source of unpleasant odors and allergens that can diminish the home in the eyes of the buyer.
  5. Leave during the inspection.? Even though you may think you need to be there to answer questions, you really don?t have a roll in the inspection process, and despite what you may think, you really don?t want to be there. For one thing, in the course of a normal inspection, many sellers feel uncomfortable when the inspector does things like climbing on the roof, getting in the attic, running the heat and A/C full blast, running water at fixtures, and the like.? But even more importantly, this is a time for the buyer and inspector.? They may feel that you are somehow interfering with that time.? Know that the inspector?s findings are confidential. Buyers are paying the inspector hundreds of dollars and want to be able to speak with the inspector candidly, without fear of insulting the seller.
  6. Make items accessible.? Provide access to areas such as the attic, crawlspaces, access panels, electrical panels and HVAC equipment prior to the inspection. This may mean moving stored items and clothing.? Be sure to leave keys for detached garages and locked doors.
  7. Turn on utilities.? The inspector will need to operate plumbing fixtures, electrical components, and gas appliances.? Be sure the gas is on, the propane or oil tank is full, all breakers are on, and all gas pilots are lit.? If vacant, be sure the home is not winterized. Inspectors will not turn on shut off valves or light pilots for reasons of safety and liability and failure to have the home prepared can require additional trips to the home, resulting in additional fees and delaying the report.? It?s also nice to set thermostats for the heat or air conditioning to comfortable temperatures so the buyer feels more at home when arriving for the inspection.
  8. Turn off home burglar alarms. You don?t want the buyers to meet your local police department. Even if the alarm is not monitored, be sure it is turned off.? Going through an inspection with an alarm going off is very stressful, and we want this process to be as pleasurable as possible.
  9. Certified Pre-owned Homes. Don?t be caught off guard by the inspection and don?t let it jeopardize a sale. Have the inspection work for you rather than against you.? Getting your home professionally inspected and listed as a Certified Pre-Owned home by A-Pro Home Inspection Services prior to listing the home for sale will eliminate virtually all of the problems that can arise when a buyers bring their inspector.? Learn more at Certified Pre-owned Home
  10. Be patient.? It may take a few days before you hear from the buyers regarding the inspection, depending on your contract.? Don?t contact the inspector directly because their findings are confidential. The inspector does not decide what repairs the buyer will ask for and can?t speak on their behalf, so it?s best just to wait for everything to be presented in writing.

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By John Brinton,? Licensed Home Inspector

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Senior Inspector Brinton is the owner/operator of A-Pro Home Inspection Olympia and has been personally performing professional home inspection services for more than a decade.

Source: http://www.homeinspectionolympia.com/2013/01/20/selling-your-home/

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Being A Happy Stay At Home Dad Isn't Easy - Retire By 40

If you told me 10 years ago that I would be a stay at home dad, I?d say NO WAY! I was making good money at a challenging job, so why would I quit and become the primary car taker? Mrs. RB40 felt the same way and we were chugging along quite well as a DINK couple for many years. I like kids and always wanted to have a child or two, but we put it off while we were busy with our careers. My whole perspective changed when Baby RB40 was born. He became the center of my world while my job continued to lose its luster. My intention was always to get a different job, but at some point that morphed into being?a stay at home dad. We have been preparing for an income reduction and luckily it turned out that we could function with just one stable job (Mrs. RB40?s.)

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Summer is more fun?

Being a stay at home dad to a rambunctious little guy is a lot of fun, but it is challenging especially in the winter. It was much easier in the summer because we did a lot of fun outdoor activities to work off some of his boundless energy. We played in the parks, went to see free concerts, splashed at fountains all over town, and had a blast. In the winter, our options narrowed down to the library, the mall, and just a few other indoor spaces. We still go out to the park, but it?s just not as fun when it?s cold and rainy. Anyway, it?s been over 6 months since I left my dysfunctional job and became a stay at home dad/blogger and I?d like to write about the transition and the many challenges SAHDs (stay at home dads) face.

Learning to be the caretaker

Learning to take care of a kid can be a steep curve, but that?s just the tip of the iceberg. The first challenge for a SAHD is to learn how to do all the things that your mom used to do.

Taking care of a child

Let?s face it. Taking care of a child doesn?t come naturally to most guys. I had to learn quite a few things quickly, but I?m sure all parents go through this. Here is just a small list of things that I had to learn how to do.

  • Change diapers
  • Prepare food and feed the baby
  • Calm the baby when he?s crying
  • Put a baby to bed/nap
  • Bathe the baby

Basically, it?s just learning how to be a parent. I assume most moms are more naturally suited to do these things than dads. I learned the basic caring and feeding of a baby pretty quickly and developed a rapport with Baby RB40. Some dads are not comfortable with these ?mom? tasks and if you?re one of them, being a SAHD might be ?a difficult proposition.

Household chores

Next of the list is the household chores. Like most guys, I am terrible at housekeeping. When I was single, I probably vacuumed twice a year? However, if you want to be a stay at home dad, you should do as much household chores as you can. The missus works all day and she?doesn?t?want to come home to a pig sty, right? The house?doesn?t?have to be spotless, but the SAHD should be able to do the bulk of these tasks. I cook, vacuum, clean the bathrooms, take care of the car, dosome laundry, and a number of other household chores. Of course, I?m not perfect and Mrs. RB40 takes up a lot of the slack on the weekends. As long as you show some effort, your sugar mama would understand and keep bringing home the bacon.

Baby needs constant attention

One of the moms in our building has a daughter about the same age as Baby RB40. When she does the laundry, the girl would sit in an armchair and wait quietly until she?s done. What? Baby RB40 has never sat still for 30 seconds in his whole life! OK, that?s an exaggeration, but not by much. When we go do laundry, he?ll be running around slamming the washer doors and other such things. He needs constant attention when he?s awake and if you?re not paying attention to him, he?ll throw a fit.

I set up a monitor for him when I work so he can watch his songs on YouTube*, but we only do that for about an hour a day because that?s plenty of YouTube time. I can check emails, answer comments, catch up on other blogs, and a few other minor tasks in that hour. I have to wait until he?s asleep to do any serious writing. Anyway, the point is don?t count on getting much done when your kid is awake. I?m sure this will get better as he gets older, but he still needs a lot of attention right now. Your mileage may vary here. I guess some kids are calmer than others.

*Baby RB40 isn?t interested in watching TV or movies. He likes to pick which songs to play on Youtube and changes his selections constantly. I think a movie has too much dialog for him.

My mom is here to help out for a while and it?s such a huge relief for me. I can get away for a couple of hours to blog or do other errands as needed. If you can get some help from family or hire a baby sitter for a couple of hours per day, that will make a big difference.

Mental Challenges

After a SAHD learns how to be a mom, he?ll have to deal with other mental challenges. I think the mental aspect of it is much more difficult that learning the caretaker skill set.

Do you like spending time with adults?

Being a stay at home parent can be isolating. I was used to being in an office and interacting with colleagues throughout the day. When I transitioned to being a stay at home dad, all interactions with an adult came to an abrupt halt. This can be a jarring transition for many people. However, I don?t really mind it much. I?m an introvert at heart and it?s not a big deal for me.

Do you need mental stimulation?

My old job was technically challenging and I had to put on my thinking cap every day. Staying at home on the other hand is at the other end of the spectrum. I?m busy with Baby RB40 all day, but there are very few challenging mental stimulants. This is fine for me actually because I was completely burned out at my old job. I needed some serious time out from the constant mental challenges. Writing a blog also helps in this department. I have to think up new and useful articles for readers. That?s enough for now, but if you like to be mentally stimulated every day, then it will be difficult for you to spend all your time with your kids.

stay at home dad challenges

Here is our little punk

Baby will make you mad

Do you get angry easily? No matter how much you love your kid, they will push boundaries constantly. If you get mad easily, it?s not a good idea to spend 12 hours a day with your kid. I?m a pretty calm guy and I got quite mad at Baby RB40 a few times. Mrs. RB40 also gets infuriated with him sometimes and she rarely gets angry. Anyway, the point is a stay at home parent should have a calm personality. Kids will get into trouble, but it?s best to deal with it calmly.

Does your family support the move?

Your spouse has to support this transition for it to work out. If your spouse is better suited to be a stay at home parent, then you might need to continue working. Hopefully, your extended family also supports the move, but it?s less necessary. Mrs. RB40 likes working and she doesn?t want to be a stay at home mom. She is really supportive and I?m thankful for that.

Stay at home dads are still a minority

The number of stay at home dads increased quite a bit over the last decades. Some of this is due to the economy and the advancement of women in the workplace, but we?re still a huge minority. I haven?t heard any negative comments personally, but I?m sure some people don?t like this arrangement. Usually, I?m the only dad around when we go to story time or the playground. It feels a bit weird to be such a minority, but it?s not a big deal. It?s hard to make friends with the moms too, but I guess that?s because I?m not very good at making new friends in general.

Finance

Lastly, let?s look at if you can be a SAHD for the long haul (or at least until the kid goes off to school.) Some dads lost their jobs and moved into a SAHD role by default. Even if you?re happy at being a SAHD, can your family handle the financial pressure? On the other hand, if your family has plenty of money, you can get some hired help to deal with the chores.

Cash flow

A family has to be able to function financially with just mom?s regular income. If you need to draw on your savings or borrow to pay bills, then it won?t work out in the long run. We have reduced our monthly expenses since 2007 in the anticipation of a loss of my income (job change) and kept it moderate. We also built our passive income streams and I?m able to make a little side income online. All these factors combined enable us to maintain a monthly positive cash flow most of the time. If you want to be a stay at home parent and the cash flow doesn?t work out, then you need to cut expenses and/or increase the household income.

Liquid Saving

We saved up 18 months worth of expenses before I quit my job. If Mrs. RB40 loses her job too, then we?ll have a year to figure something out. I think a year of expenses is a good insurance to have before you transition into a SAHD role. If things work out well for 2 years, then we?ll reduce the cash saving to around 6 months or so and invest the rest.

Retirement and Education Saving

Can you continue to save for retirement?after becoming a SAHD? How about your kid?s education? I think this one is more optional. If being a stay at home parent is that important to you, you can put off retirement/college saving for a few years. Once the kid goes off to school, you can rejoin the workforce and start saving again. For us, Mrs. RB40 will continue to max out her 401(k) plan. Currently, we have a positive monthly cash flow so those extra money go to Baby RB40?s 529 account as well.

Being a stay at home dad is rewarding, but the transition isn?t easy

I love being a stay at home dad. It?s very gratifying to see Baby RB40 as he develops and grows. Being a SAHD came naturally to me for the most part, but I know the transition can be challenging to many guys. Luckily, Mrs. RB40 is supportive and likes her job. After six months of being a SAHD, I?m quite happy to report that it?s working out well. I?m hopeful that we can keep this up for 4 more years until our kid starts kindergarten. Once he starts school, then I?ll evaluate our plan and see where to go from there. If I have my way, I?d stay self employed and start another small business or two. I would even consider working for a small company if I can find a dream job in the right environment. Anyway, I hope you enjoyed reading this stay at home dad update. Let me know if I missed any challenges or if you have any questions.

Source: http://retireby40.org/2013/01/happy-stay-home-dads-easy/

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